Don’t
put off till tomorrow what you can do today...
We’ve all heard this
and I’m sure many of us have not heeded the advice and found a multitude of
reasons why tomorrow might be better – I’ll have more energy after a good
night’s sleep, Maybe the light will be better tomorrow, Maybe I won’t have this
bone in my leg tomorrow!!!, you know the sort of thing. It must also lead to lots of marital discourse,
when that shelf or picture needs putting up or the lawn needs cutting and
excuses such as maybe tomorrow my eye will be straighter or that wisp of cloud
way over there on the horizon may be coming this way and what a shame to get
everything out, only to have to put it all away again if it rains. Certainly in my house there are times when
‘er indoors tuts, raises an eyebrow or sighs loudly, before asking out loud to
anyone who might be listening, I wonder if this will ever get done.
Well, for years I have
known deep down that there was a reason for delaying certain things until
tomorrow, the latest being cladding the ceiling in our new mezzanine area, even
if at the time the excuses seemed a little flimsy, but now I have had it all
explained to me when reading a copy of Good Housekeeping instead of being good
at the housekeeping! It’s all down to a
small snippet that suddenly clearly puts down on paper just what I have been
trying to say for years. But as with
most things in life there are certain conditions!
John Perry is an
American professor of philosophy who explains: “Procrastinators seldom do
nothing, they do marginally useful things, like gardening or sharpening pencils”
(today I sorted out the offcuts of wood
in the workshop and put the tools tidy!).
He advises going along with this, explaining that you are still
getting other things done, whilst freeing up your brain to mull over the chore
you’ve put off. The upshot then of this
is that said chore, having been mulled over and therefore better planned, is more
effectively carried out.
So as long as you
potter constructively, your procrastination therefore becomes positive or “structured”
as John Perry refers to it and suddenly I find that not only am I positive and
structured, or procrastinating positively, as I tell ‘er indoors, but also it
has done my self esteem a huge power of good, as I no longer feel guilty when I
make sure that the cutlery in the draw is tidily stacked together, the glasses
in the cupboard are all in neat rows according to type, my socks and pants are
neatly folded and colour coded or my toothpaste tube is carefully rolled up and
squeezed from the end, it will all mean that important job tomorrow will go
that much more smoothly and be finished just that bit quicker, albeit a day or
two later and all those other things will have been done into the bargain!!
On the other hand, some
of those things might just be put down to my “autistic” tendencies, but that’s
to discuss another day, once I’ve raked the gravel outside into neat
lines!!!
I know it’s only just
gone 1st April, and maybe you think I’m making it all up, well if
you’re one of these Doubting Thomases’s, then check out the link below:
http://www.structuredprocrastination.com/
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